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Monthly Archives: February 2009

Is it possible? ——->  this is a very common question we used to hear every where. I have heard many different answers of this question, usually this question becomes complex according to its surroundings and situation. After observing each answer in detail I have came with conclusion that every thing which can be come in your mind is possible. Like if you can think that you can fly then I am sure you can, may be not now but after sometime science will do it for you.  If you think that you can travel miles of distance in seconds then again I am sure you can.

God has given us brain to think, to innovate, to search, to do…….every thing which can hit your mind is possible because I believe this brain is a perfect machine and its creator is also the only PERFECT so how can a perfect machine of PERFECT creator will give you junk data……….

We have used these words many times in our life but I think most of us cant explain the difference between them. Passion and Obsession both sounds same but wait a minute  they are not same in their meaning.

There is a slight line between Passion and Obsession and if we ignore it believe me this simple mistake can lead us to destruction. I try to explain this difference in my style. Actually my passion for something is my power to do the best in the area in which I feel “this is the thing I wanna do for years” but if we lost ourselves somewhere because of this small word “Passion” a new thing emerge in our life which we call “obsession”.

It is always good to passionate about something but if you are obsessed then my dear you are going in very wrong way. You should have to be in control of your mind all the time and in all the circumstances no matter what is happening around you.  If you are in control of your mind you can certainly distinguish between “”Passion and obsession”.

For example:  My career is my passion but if because of this career I forget about the people I Love then this is my obsession about my career.

Strange love Story

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home…. suddenly he asked the waiter. “would you please give me some salt? I’d like to put it in my coffee.” Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby? He replied: “whenI was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there”. While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That’s his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life… And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee e, as she knew that’s the way he liked it. After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: “My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said to you—the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything.. Now I’m dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don’t like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. ” Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee again”.

Her tears made the letter totally wet.

Someday, someone asked her: what’s the taste of salty coffee? It’s sweet, She replied.

Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive,

not 2 c but 2 understand,

not 2 hear but 2 listen,

not 2 let go but 2 HOLD ON !!!!

Don’t ever leave the one you love for the one you like,

because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.

Words……which over turn my history

Which makes me a man…… seconds

She builds castles of fantasies

Which I live in …………..for seconds

And I return………..return to my table

Nothing with me…..

Nothing with me…….except words